Last Weekend

Last weekend my approach was simple. I did not waste any time making more casual conversation than I had to. I followed a structured series of steps, almost robotically.

1.) Open
2.) Ask a simple question, like where are you from
Listen to her answer
3.) State my appreciation. Relate. Ask a juicier question, such as what do you do for fun, what are you doing this summer
Listen to her answer
4.) State my intent. Relate. Vibe.
5.) Ask her about her relationship situation.
6.) Get her phone number.

I was able to do this three times this weekend.

The first was a Bulgarian girl who was a consultant. We talked about music and culture. I told her she was ambitious and sexy. She was dating a guy she didn't like. She was concerned that she was older than I was. I need to work on a good disqualifier for this. I texted her, but she didn't text me back. I didn't have the balls to call her. Now my window of opportunity is closing.

The second girl was fun. A little thick, but lots of cleavage and probably really good in bed. I friended her on facebook. We met again by coincidence at another bar. I initially opened her friends, and then met her. I sent her a text, but no returned text. I called her, but couldn't figure out how to leave her a voice mail. I'm wimping out, because I feel guilty because I really couldn't see myself with her long term. I guess I still have some hangups with MLTR and friend with benefits. I especially felt these feelings after meeting Girl #3......

The last number I got was a girl who was just my "type." Ahhhh, so cute. I met her on the subway after significant eye flirting. We talked about mundane things. I didn't care. I was so flustered. I didn't SOI or ask what her relationship situation was. I called her twice and texted her. No returned call.