I define vibing as a certain type of interaction achieved when both parties are comfortable with each others presence and neither is self aware of their own. The future of any interaction depends on whether or not two people vibe. Relationships typically do not start off with vibing, however; usually they begin with a certain amount of nervousness, awkwardness, and inflated self-awareness. This is natural, especially around people we don't know.
If I can learn to learn to vibe with anyone, anywhere, anytime, I will be a very happy man. Each person that I vibe with brings me closer to a oneness with humanity. I feel confident knowing that I can just go outside and sink into a comfortable interaction with anyone I want. Letting go of my own self inhibitions, I dive into the psyches of the people around me and enjoy them as human beings. The deeper into rapport I go with someone, the more freedom I have to explore them.
What is vibing, and what conditions need to be met in order for it to happen?
I'm not sure, but here are some ideas:
1.) The INTENT of the interaction cannot be hidden. Both parties must realize and be comfortable with the TRUE reason(s) why they are talking to one another. The intent will either be accepted, or it will not.
2.) Each person's TRUE SELF cannot be hidden. Both parties must accept each other for who they really are. They must display some vulnerability and disqualify themselves in some way to show that they are not superhuman.
3.) RELATIONS need to be found between people. These range from having common interests to mutual attraction.
Some signs that vibing is occuring
1.) Equal give and take in the interaction. Neither side talks more than the other.
2.) Comfortable body language, mirroring
3.) Comfortable silences
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